Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Dr. Crew's NLP Lessons #18

LEARNING, CHANGE, AND CHOICES

NLP theory is that all human beings have the internal resources to change and to succeed. As long as there is a desire to change people can achieve goals.

All communication should increase choice. People make the best choices when they act rather than to speculate. Even if the action does not result in getting us closer to our goals, the results are PURE FEEDBACK and never failure.

We need to take complete responsibility for all of our choices. When we blame others for why we feel a certain way, acted a particular way, or why we are in any present condition we are insuring that we will remain victims and never experience authentic empowerment.

NO ONE CONTROLS HOW WE FEEL!

All human beings have the capacity for one-trial learning. Paying attention to the feedback and taking complete responsibility for our actions insures we are growing and learning.

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