Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Bereavement for our animal friends

My best friend and his partner lost their doggy this morning. Their beloved pet had been ill for a while and together they had been caring for her especially over the past 2-3 weeks as she was dying. He was telling me how wonderful it was for them to care for her as she got weaker and weaker. He stated that it was like taking care of a baby.

I clearly remember caring for our "kids" as they were dying as well. It's interesting to look back and realize that even when we adopt them as kittens or puppies we know at some level in our mind that we will be there for them as they are dying. I know how amazing it is to love a pet and to share life with them. They are so loving and loyal and to be with them and care for them throughout their lives is an honor.

So, here's to "Puppy" and all the love she gave to Ken and Jim. I pray that you both will carry the love for her in your hearts and know how blessed she was to have such loving and caring parents. I know that this loss is especially hard for you, Jim, as you just lost your Mother this past year. We offer you our thoughts and support.

Dr. Crew offers bereavement therapy to anyone experiencing a death of someone they loved. Many patients need to work through their grief with a trained therapist who comprehends what it is like to lose a beloved pet. So often, many people do not understand this pain. As a fellow lover of animals, I do.

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