Thursday, September 13, 2012

The "Victim" Pattern

Sometimes we play the victim because we WERE victims.
We learned that we didn’t have control, and then adapted to that.
Because we once felt powerless, we learned to give our power away.
We CHOOSE either consciously or subconsciously to continue to victimize ourselves.
We CHOOSE to recreate situations and events or frame them so that we are victimized by others or by life.

In my work, I see this pattern constantly.
It is only when we become mindful of these patterns and take complete responsibility for these patterns that we can break free of their grip.

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